Just sharing our messy story, a story of reliance upon God in the midst of having four crazy boys and a church.
Saturday, August 29, 2009
Drunken Rednecks And Boomerangs
Ham saw his sin and instead of covering it, went and told his brothers and left him exposed. When Shem and Japeth heard, they went to the tent not to mock him, but to walk in backwards lest they see, and covered him with a blanket. The result was cursing for Ham's children and blessing for Shem and Japeth.
When we talk about the short coming of others, and point out the sin in others lives, there are little ears who are hearing. Parents, when your kids hear you tear down brothers and sisters they will walk away and your sin will effect your children. Ham's kids, later, would be called the Cannanites--the immoral, rebellious, pagan people. If I talk to my wife about how horrible my boss is day by day, unbeknownst to my wife she begins to despise my boss, and at the next company picnic she'll have daggers in her eyes. When brothers and sisters fall short we are to cover them with the grace we ourselves don't deserve either.
Jesus said to us in Luke 6, "Judge not, and you will not be judged; condemn not, and you will not be condemned; forgive and you will be forgiven; give, and it will be given to you. Good measure, pressed down, shaken together, running over, will be put into your lap. For the measure that you use will be used back to you."
Most of us have heard this verse taught by preachers wanting your money, but this verse is talking about mercy. Judgement is like a boomerang--the harder you throw it, the harder it comes back to you.
Love covers a multitude of sins.
Friday, August 28, 2009
Discontentment
Here are some examples of unchanging circumstances......
- An unfulfilling or low-paying job where your boss acts like the c.e.o. from the movie The Incredibles.
- Singleness well into midlife and beyond.
- Inability to bear children.
- An unhappy marriage.
- Physical disabilities and appearance.
- Continual poor health.
Yesterday, I mentioned Psalm 139:16 as a passage that helps me with frustration, but the same truth that God is in control, and has appointed all of my days, still applies to ongoing circumstances. Psalm 139:13 can help us further, "You formed my inward parts; you knitted me together in my mother's womb." God has so directed our DNA and other biology to be exactly how he wants it. I have a huge forehead because God wanted me to (my brother in law calls is a 5-head instead of a 4-head).
Amy Carmichael wrote a poem entitled "In Acceptance Lieth Peace" she writes of a person who is wrestling with their ongoing circumstances, and as you read the last two lines, you see how peace comes to him.
He said, "I will accept the breaking sorrow
Which God to-morrow
Will to His son explain
Not vain the word; not vain:
For in Acceptance lieth peace.
This is not resignation done grudgingly with a smoldering discontentment underneath. As Amy Carmichael has pointed out so clearly-- it's not resignation or submission, but acceptance. You will recognize a constant theme in anything that I write--the importance of a firm belief in the sovereignty, wisdom, and goodness of God in all the circumstances of our lives. May all of us learn to accept the things we cannot change, for his glory, praise, and our own joy. You might be thinking "if he only knew my situation he wouldn't be so annoyingly preachy," but I write as one who has had very difficult circumstances at times in ways I cannot share with you, and the truths I have typed have been absolutely helpful as I have struggled along the way.
Thursday, August 27, 2009
Anxiety- Worry-Frustration
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
Eternal Judgement
Monday, August 24, 2009
Biblical Metaphors For The Church
Wednesday, August 19, 2009
Dorcas Was Not A Dorkus
Acts 9:39 "Then Peter arose and went with them. When he was come, they brought him into the upper chamber: and all the widows stood by him weeping, and shewing the coats and garments which Dorcas made, while she was with them."
The story is she fell ill and died. A bunch of widows in Joppa (a city) were devastated and sought Peter to come and pray over her. She was raised to life and the miracle was used to bring some to Christ.
Now I got interested in Dorcas because the old couple who is housing me in Seattle for Re-train this week had named their dog's squeaky toy Dorcas so that every time they heard that toy squeak they would be reminded of how Dorcas in her old age was so influential in the lives of the younger people. I thought this was ironic as this couples hospitality was so graciously offered to me. So this Dorcas woman made clothes for widows and they were missing her terribly.
This got me thinking, if I was hit by a bus in Seattle tomorrow would people be missing me in my community? Not just family or church--the city. If our church in Monmouth stopped existing would anyone in Monmouth/Independence/West Salem/Dallas.......would anyone cry? Would they notice a difference? Would anyone hold up evidences of grace from my life? I think we spend so much time trying to be cool, that we miss out on a life that leaves a legacy in Christ.